Gracie Abrams is embracing her sex life.
In an interview with Cosmopolitan for the magazine’s Love Issue published on Wednesday, Feb. 5, the “Risk” singer opened up about sexx and what makes her feel sexy.
When asked if she had any sex advice to share, Abrams, 25, said: “I’ve only more recently become proud of my sex life. The best I’ve ever felt during sex is when I have been performing the least in the moment.”
She added: “I think that comes from being in relationships with people who see me for who I am and who respect, love, and cherish me. People who actually want to learn about me and my body. But this is newer for me, too.”
Gracie Abrams for ‘Cosmopolitan’ in February 2025.
Eli Russell Linnetz for Cosmopolitan
As for what makes the singer — who opened for Taylor Swift on her Eras Tour — feel sexy, it’s when she feels “the strongest physically.”
“I’m someone who notices a difference in my mood on the days I’ve worked out versus not,” she said. “It’s a relationship I work on with myself often.”
When asked about her Valentine’s Day plans, Abrams shared that she was going to be in Paris and work on music with producer Aaron Dessner.
Though he isn’t mentioned by name, Abrams has been dating Paul Mescal since the summer of 2024. The Normal People actor and singer first sparked romance rumors when TMZ obtained photos of them together at a London restaurant in June.
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Abrams and Mescal, 29, were seen out together several other times, including Mescal’s Gladiator II premiere in Los Angeles this past November. The couple was also together in York City for when Abrams made her Saturday Night Live debut.
A source told PEOPLE in November that Mescal and Abrams’ relationship was genuine. “Gracie and Paul are the real deal,” the insider said at the time, adding: “They’re at the top of their game and always in communication.”
Gracie Abrams for ‘Cosmopolitan’ in February 2025.
Eli Russell Linnetz for Cosmopolitan
Abrams made a rare comment about Mescal when speaking with NYLON in December 2024. When asked how she felt navigating her relationship with the Aftersun actor in the public eye.
“That has nothing to do with me,” she said. “It doesn’t affect me.”
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