Money experts will tell you I probably started too late. “Kids should be given a bit of spending money as soon as they are old enough not to eat it,” says Certified Financial Planner Trevor Van Nest. “Learning about money will be a lifelong process for them.” In fact, Van Nest and other financial experts generally agree that kids as young as two often understand more about money than parents give them credit for. “Just by watching you buy things at the store, they quickly figure out who has the power,” says Minnesota-based financial educator Ruth Hayden. “Your role is to help them understand that money isn’t just for spending—it’s for saving and giving as well.” (Read: How can I avoid money tantrums?)
Teaching toddlers and young kids about the value of money
To get kids comfortable with handling money, one of the easiest things you can do is encourage them to sort coins. Help them separate and count out a pocketful of dimes and nickels and show them how many of each add up to a dollar. Give them a clear bin or mason jar to collect their money, so they can watch their money grow. To help them along, Kelley Keehn, author of The Prosperity Factor for Kids, recommends bringing money talks into everyday life. “If you’re in the doctor’s office waiting room, bring out some coins and bills and look for hidden things in the money. These are key learning moments for kids.” (Should you pay your kids to volunteer?)
When you’re ready, start giving them small amounts of money weekly as an allowance; they need to have money in order to learn to manage it. “We gave our three kids an allowance starting when they were toddlers,” says Van Nest, “and we asked them to save 50% and spend 50%.” As they get older, you can introduce the concept of giving, letting the kids decide how much they intend to save, spend and share.
MoneySense columnist Bruce Sellery says he gives his six-year-old daughter Abby an allowance—he says about $5 to $10 a week is appropriate for that age. “It’s key for her to learn from her own money mistakes —and that works for our family,” says Sellery, adding that the allowance is paid regardless of whether she helps around the house or not. Financial educators generally like this approach, and so did a lot of you. In a survey of more than 200 MoneySense readers, 48% agreed that allowance should not be tied to the completion of chores. As one reader noted, “everyone needs to contribute to household chores, no payments required.” (How to explain basic budgeting to kids.)
Don’t forget they’re watching you all the time. “Learn to be consistent as a couple. Get on the same page and write up general rules,” says Kira Vermond, author of The Secret Life of Money: A Kid’s Guide to Cash. “It will help you model the right behaviours to teach them good financial habits.” And if they make mistakes? “Don’t worry—it’s a key part of the process.”
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Here are smart money moves you can show your kid right now:
❏ Give them a piggy bank
A clear plastic bin where your child can watch his money grow is ideal.
❏ Set a weekly allowance
Nothing too wild: Their age plus $5 should give them something to spend (and save).
❏ Set some limits
Be clear about requirements—if your child is expected to do chores, on which day allowance will be paid and whether they can spend it however they like.
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